Today, it is a common belief and thinking that the wife has all the right to complain about and correct her husband. Many people, including Pastors and Marriage Counsellors, would even encouraged the wife to report an "erring" husband to the authorities and to file complaint against him. With their ignorance of God's Great Mystery of Marriage (GMOM), almost the entire society would approve of this, and say that the wife has the right to correct her husband. This wrong understanding resulted in a world today, which is filled with all kinds of sex problems, marriage problems, and family problems (delinquent and disobedient children, teen pregnancies, abortions, lots of divorce and marriage annulments, broken families, single parents, homosexuality, incests, rapes, etc.)!
By: LOPE COLUMNA
MESSIANIC-KABBALIST PASTOR GENERAL
The BRIDE OF CHRIST MINISTRY OF LIFE
DOES THE CHURCH READY TO BECOME THE BRIDE OF CHRIST?
- Has the Bride made herself READY (Revelation 19:7)?
With the confusion and wrong understanding of the word "correct," as applied to the Husband-Wife relationship, the resounding answer is: The Church is absolutely NOT yet ready to marry Christ!
Before the Church or The BRIDE OF CHRIST can be considered READY for the coming Marriage of the Lamb (Revelation 19:7), she must first have a clear and Godly understanding of this very vital subject of Marriage.
Only those Christians and Jews who have the proper understanding of the Great Mystery of Marriage relationship (and practiced them in their lives), will become part of genuine BRIDE OF CHRIST -- whom Christ will marry at His return! Christ will never marry a Christian, Jew, or Church that have the belief and tendency to correct Him!
Only those Christians and Jews who have the proper understanding of the Great Mystery of Marriage relationship (and practiced them in their lives), will become part of genuine BRIDE OF CHRIST -- whom Christ will marry at His return! Christ will never marry a Christian, Jew, or Church that have the belief and tendency to correct Him!
CRITICAL QUESTIONS:
- What is the right thing to do for a wife who perceived that her husband is making mistakes?
- Is it right for the wife to correct her husband if he is making mistakes?
- What are the implications if the wife corrects her husband?
- If the wife has no right to correct her husband, is it OK for her to tell the Church ministry, or someone else, about her complains?
- If it is wrong for a wife to correct her husband, who has the right to correct the husband?
- Is the Church ministry authorized to correct the husband?
- What does God's Bible say?
The word "CORRECT" signifies an element of disagreement, chastisement, to censure severely, and to punish in order to gain control or enforce obedience. CORRECTION is proper only if the one doing it is in the upper rank and authority to do so, applying it to a lower rank.
But, if the one doing the correction is in the lower rank and correcting the upper rank; then, correction becomes wrong and inappropriate. In this case, the lower rank is promoting rebellion and division instead of unity, even damaging the right government structure. And for a Wife (lower rank) to do correction of her husband (upper rank) is to destroy the unity or oneness of Marriage.
In other words, the Wife destroys her Marriage by DIVIDING THE ONE INTO TWO -- the very opposite of the Great Mystery of Marriage (Ephesians 5:31-32). Imagine a Church (Wife) that will correct Christ (The Husband)! And this corrective attitude of the wife also go against God's Law of Government and Blessings as written in 1Corinthians 11:3.
WHAT IS THE TRUTH ABOUT THE PROPER RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND WIFE?
The whole world do not know; because they are all ignorant of God's Great Mystery of Marriage (Ephesians 5:31-32)
- For this cause shall a Man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his Wife, and THEY TWO SHALL BE ONE flesh. (Eph 5:31 KJV)
- This is a GREAT MYSTERY: but I speak concerning Christ and the Church. (Eph 5:32 KJV)
The truth is: The wife should "reverence" her husband, not to correct him (Ephesians 5:33).
- ... the wife see that she reverence her husband. (Eph 5:33 KJV)
- ...a man shall leave his Father and Mother, and shall join to his Wife; and the two shall become one flesh.' (Mat 19:5 HNV)
- So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart. (Mat 19:6 HNV)
- Marriage must be respected by all, and the marriage bed kept undefiled, because God will judge immoral people and adulterers. (Heb 13:4)
The Wife can respectfully suggest her idea, but she should never correct her husband! She should never forget the Godly authority God bestowed on her husband, whether he makes mistakes or not (Ephesians 5:33)!
- ...and the wife see that she reverence her husband. (Eph 5:33 KJV)
- Wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that if any do not obey the Word, they may also be won without the Word by the conduct of the wives, having witnessed your chaste behavior in the fear of God. (1Pe 3:1-2 MKJV)
THE FLOW OF GOD'S AUTHORITY, ENERGY, AND BLESSINGS, ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE
- But I want you to know that Christ is the Head of every Man, and the Man is the Head of the Woman, and God is the Head of Christ. (1Cor 11:3)
The above scripture teaches us a very vital truth in the original design of marriage, family, and the universe. There must be the proper flow and direction of AUTHORITY and ENERGY.
- For ONE OFFICIAL IS EYED BY A HIGHER ONE; and there are officials over them. (Ecc 5:8 HNV)
From God the Father --> Christ --> Man-Husband --> Woman-Wife.
The reversal of this flow of authority between Man-Husband and Woman-Wife blocks God's blessings, and results in all sorts of woes and troubles!
Continued on: The IGNORANCE OF GOD'S MARRIAGE COVENANT GOVERNMENT IS THE POWERFUL TOOL OF SATAN TO DECEIVE YOU, AND THE WHOLE WORLD (Rev 12:9)! You Have to Undeceive Yourself By Understanding God's Great Mystery of Marriage (GMOM) If You Want To Be Saved At Christ's Return!
Or proceed to: A WIFE 'CORRECTING HER HUSBAND' IS COMMITTING THE SAME SIN OF THE FALLEN ANGELS! What is the Sin of the Fallen Angels?
The BRIDE OF CHRIST MINISTRY OF LIFE
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From the Group: The Bible, Christendom, Islam and Hindusim
Min Minasah LOPE COLUMNA The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and his children and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. Surely, every one of you is a shepherd and responsible for his flock.”
Source: Sahih Bukhari 6719, Sahih Muslim 1829
Min Minasah LOPE COLUMNA WHILE BIBLE SAID :> Guard the doors of your mouth, from her who lies in your bosom. (Micah 7:5). 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 1 Timothy 2:12 Woman only for the man, man not for the woman!9 Nor was man created for the woman, but woman for the man.1 Corinthians 11:9
Min Minasah NOTE THAT :> "Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman." (Eccles. 25:13)
"Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die." (Eccles. 25:22)
"If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go." (Eccles. 25: 26)
"The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids. If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty." (Eccles. 26:9-10)
"A silent and loving woman is a gift of the Lord: and there is nothing so much worth as a mind well instructed. A shamefaced and faithful woman is a double grace, and her continent mind cannot be valued." (Eccles. 26:14-15)
"A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord." (Eccles.26:25)
"For from garments cometh a moth, and from women wickedness. Better is the churlishness of a man than a courteous woman, a woman, I say, which bringeth shame and reproach." (Eccles. 42:13-14). .......... .......................... .. SIMPLEY SHE IS A WICKED .
From the Group: The Bible, Christendom, Islam and Hindusim
Min Minasah LOPE COLUMNA The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and his children and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. Surely, every one of you is a shepherd and responsible for his flock.”
Source: Sahih Bukhari 6719, Sahih Muslim 1829
Min Minasah LOPE COLUMNA WHILE BIBLE SAID :> Guard the doors of your mouth, from her who lies in your bosom. (Micah 7:5). 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 1 Timothy 2:12 Woman only for the man, man not for the woman!9 Nor was man created for the woman, but woman for the man.1 Corinthians 11:9
Min Minasah NOTE THAT :> "Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman." (Eccles. 25:13)
"Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die." (Eccles. 25:22)
"If she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go." (Eccles. 25: 26)
"The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids. If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty." (Eccles. 26:9-10)
"A silent and loving woman is a gift of the Lord: and there is nothing so much worth as a mind well instructed. A shamefaced and faithful woman is a double grace, and her continent mind cannot be valued." (Eccles. 26:14-15)
"A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord." (Eccles.26:25)
"For from garments cometh a moth, and from women wickedness. Better is the churlishness of a man than a courteous woman, a woman, I say, which bringeth shame and reproach." (Eccles. 42:13-14). .......... .......................... .. SIMPLEY SHE IS A WICKED .
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As far as the word of God is concerned it has nothing to do with the correcting of wife to husband. 1corinthians 11:3-16 simply says the headship of God, Christ, Man, church.
ReplyDeleteIn the first place we are all unrighteous, ALL have sinned and fall short in the Glory of God either man or woman. romans 3. AGREE? Yes!
So why should we accept correction from the unrighteous? unless..
All scriptures is God-breathed and useful for correcting ..in RIGHTEOUSNESS..2tim 3.
Yes! unless it comes from the righteousness of the Lord Jesus.
Either husband, wife, children, brothers, sisters. Because it is the will of the Lord that we may walk in rightousness of the Lord.
Do i contradict Eph5:22? Totally no! As far your relationship with the Lord is concern we are all subject to His righteousness and acceptance of correction from the Lord THRU the one he use to correct you.
Correction from the Lord.. are the way of life, heeds correction is honored and gain understanding. proverbs 6,13,15.
Do we not want honor from the Lord? or gain understanding from the Lord? or walk the way of life?
Who hates correction is stupid! (this is general). ignores correction leads others astray! (no wonder)
Now the question is:
Does my wife has the right to correct me?
You can see the answers clearly now. YES.
For the COMPLETE ANSWER to your Comments and Questions, go to: Q409 of The BIBLE EXPLAINER.
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I have shared what i have shared. I have nothing to say.
ReplyDelete"they also may without the word be won by the conversation [conduct; behavior] of the wives; for though the ordinary way and means of conversion is the word, faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word; yet it may be sometimes done without it; or however by the agreeable conversation of professors, and so of religious wives, the hearts of such as were averse to Christianity, and the Gospel, as unbelieving husbands, may be so softened, and wrought upon, as to entertain a better opinion of it, and in process of time be inclined to hear and attend it; the consequence of which may prove their conversion, which is a gaming, or winning of souls; and which, as it is for their good, is for the glory of Christ; for as every soul that is delivered from the power of darkness, and is translated into the kingdom of Christ, is a loss to Satan, it is a gain to Christ, and to his church. The Syriac version, instead of "without the word", reads, "without labour"; as if the winning of unbelieving husbands was easily obtained by the conversation of their wives. -- 1 Peter 3:1 comments from Gill's Exposition of the Entire Bible
ReplyDeleteThe all-too-common conduct of the Christian wife toward her infidel or straying Christian husband is to lecture (nag) him in an attempt to convert him. This rarely works, for the natural response of a man to an attack is to "raise the drawbridge and boil the oil," or to pretend to be converted or corrected in order to have peace and quiet in his house.
Paul admonishes wives to submit to their husbands, whether infidels, straying Christians or faithful Christians. This does not require her to participate in wickedness, for her supreme Lord is God.
You have good points here. Keep it up!
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