Tuesday, June 21, 2011

The LAW OF THE ROSH (HEAD), As Applied To The HUSBAND-and-WIFE RELATIONSHIP. Wives Are Commanded By God To Submit To Their Husbands, NOT To Correct Them! But What If The Husband is Really Wrong?



God, via the Bible, advises all the wives NOT to correct their own husbands, even if the husband seems to be making mistakes and acting wrongfully. The wives are told just to be silent, and to react with respect and submission to their own husbands (1Peter 3:1-2). Never fight or angrily argue with your own husband!



By: LOPE COLUMNA
MESSIANIC-KABBALIST PASTOR GENERAL
The BRIDE OF CHRIST MINISTRY OF LIFE


IN GOD'S EYES, THE REAL BEAUTY OF THE WIFE IS HER SUBMISSION TO HER HUSBAND!

YOUR BEAUTY should not consist of outward things like elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold ornaments or fine clothes.  (1Pet 3:3)

Instead, it should consist of the hidden person of the HEART with the imperishable quality of a Gentle and Quiet Spirit, which is very valuable in God's eyes. (1Pet 3:4)
  • For in the past, the Holy Women who hoped in God also BEAUTIFIED themselves in this way, SUBMITTING TO THEIR OWN HUSBANDS, just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord... (1Pet 3:5-6)
BUT WHAT IF THE HUSBAND IS REALLY WRONG?
Is The Wife Now Justified To Correct Her Husband?
First, I want to clarify here that sometimes the wife can misinterpret a decision or action of the husband. To a wife, her husband's action or decision may appear wrong. But to the husband, it is right and should be done. The final decision of the husband should be the rule in one's Marriage and Family. God has given this authority and responsibility to the Man-Husband, not to the woman-wife.

Of course, there is the higher HEAD, or rule -- the Rule or Government of God. If there is a conflict between the Law or Government of God versus the law or decisions of the husband, then the Law of God should be followed, not the husband's. We shall obey God, rather than men (Acts 5:29). But if the husband is a follower of Christ, this is not a problem.

Usually, the conflicts in the home are not about religion. Many couples are problematic, even though both of them have the same religion, or they are members of the same Church. And many of them, including their Evangelists and Pastors, ended their marriage in separation and divorce. Oftentimes, the sources of marriage problems are about finances, child's education, where to go, what to do, what color or design of this or that in the house, etc.

ALL of the sad and miserable results of the increasing marriage and family problems in the world, including the Churches, are just the natural results of the ignorance and the breaking of GOD'S LAW OF THE ROSH.

Now, let's set aside our worldly beliefs and let God via His Bible give us the right answers.

WIVES, NEVER FIGHT OR ARGUE WITH YOUR OWN HUSBANDS!
  • Wives...submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, Even If Some Disobey the Christian Message, they may be won over WITHOUT A MESSAGE by the way their wives live, when they observe your pure, reverent lives. (1Pet 3:1-2)
  • Wives, place yourselves under your husbands' authority. Some Husbands may not obey God's Word. Their wives could win these men for Christ by the way they live WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING. (1Pet 3:1 GW)
  • Their Husbands would see how Pure and Reverent their lives are.  (1Pet 3:2 GW)
So, the Bible advises all the wives NOT to correct their own husbands, even if the husband seems to be making mistakes and acting wrongfully. The wives are told just to be silent, and to react with respect and submission to their husbands. Never fight or angrily argue with your own husband!
  • OBEY them that have the RULE over you, and SUBMIT Yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.  (Heb 13:17 KJV)
The PROPER ATTITUDE AND ACTIONS TO DO

The wives can give advice in a respectful way, but never in a "rebelling mode" or in a correcting mode! If the husband persists in his decision or action, the wife should stop talking. If she wants to do some additional actions, or if she wants to ventilate her emotions, she should talk (pray) to God the Father, but never to friends, relatives, and even to Church Pastors. Otherwise, you (the wife) dishonor your husband and you commit sin before God.  

As much as possible, the problems between husband and wife should be between them and God alone. Remember, your marriage has a holy Marriage Covenant that involves only God, the husband, and the wife. 

No other personalities are involved in the sacred Marriage Covenant, and that means that the following are unauthorized or limited in their involvement in marital problems of Husbands & Wives: 
  1. The Parents and In-Laws, 
  2. Friends and other relatives, 
  3. Marriage Counsellors, 
  4. Lawmakers, and 
  5. Church Pastors and Priests! 
If ever these personalities are consulted and are involved, they must be the last resort. God should be consulted first of all, for any marital problems between husbands and wives.

GOD'S WARNING TO MARRIAGE COUNSELLORS AND LAWMAKERS: WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, YOU MUST NOT SEPARATE!

If people are consulted for marriage problems, these marriage "counsellors" must be very careful not to suggest any division or separation between the husband and the wife! Even more so, they should be very careful not to suggest an idea that will dishonor the husband! If they do, they are guilty of a great sin before God (Matthew 19:6). 

The disciplining or correction of the husband, if ever he needs correction, is the responsibility of CHRIST -- the Head of the human husband. This means that if the wife ever saw something wrong with her husband, she should not correct him; what she should do is for her to go to and pray to God The Father, and allow the Father to do the correction via Christ.

ONLY JESUS CHRIST HAS THE AUTHORITY TO CORRECT THE ERRING MAN-HUSBAND!

Any human law or person that corrects the husband violates the universal LAW OF THE ROSH! It is only Jesus Christ who is the Head of the Man-Husband that has the authority to correct the erring Husband! 
  • ...He who created them in the beginning made them male and female... For this reason a Man will LEAVE his Father and Mother and be JOINED TO HIS WIFE, and the TWO will become ONE flesh. (Mat 19:4-5)
  • So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, MAN MUST NOT SEPARATE." (Mat 19:6)
IT IS THE HUSBAND THAT SHOULD CORRECT THE WIFE!

Does the wife really have the lawful right to correct her husband? NO!

Revelation Chapters 2 and 3 shows the right way -- it is the Husband that should correct the Wife, not the inverted way (the Wife correcting her Husband). Jesus Christ, the ultimate Husband is the one who corrects His Wife -- composed of the 7 Churches! 

Do you think it is acceptable for the Church to correct Jesus Christ - her Husband? Of course not! The same marriage principle applies to the marriage relationship between a human Husband and his Wife (Ephesians 5:31-32).  
  • This is a GREAT MYSTERY: but I speak concerning Christ and the Church.  (Eph 5:32 KJV)
BACK TO: The FIRST HUMAN SIN BROKE GOD'S COVENANT MAKING MARRIAGE A GREAT MYSTERY. The Violation of God's Marriage Leadership Law Is The ROOT-CAUSE of All Mankind's Curses! The Restoration of This Marriage Covenant By The 2nd Adam & Eve (CHRIST & His Submissive BRIDE) Will Eliminate All Mankind's Curses.


NOTE: Bible verses used in this article is based on the Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB). If not, the quoted translation is indicated.


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